You're husband is the one who should be dealing with his mother. It's never a good situation when a mother-in-law is left to be dealt with by the son-in-law or daughter-in-law. You don't need to feel bad or apologize for feeling an extremely strong desire to take care of your child.
That's how it works. The flip side is that it will come in very handy to have someone else around to give you a break once in a while, so you want to try to avoid that if possible. If your husband won't deal with the situation, could you sit down with your mother-in-law some time when the baby's sleeping?
Hopefully she'll understand you're not saying she's a bad caregiver, but it's your job and your instinct to take care of the baby, you're in charge of the baby, and you're fine if she helps out, but jumping in and taking the baby away from you is not helping. Hopefully she'll listen to reason. However, her behavior doesn't sound very rational.
If she keeps at it you'll just have to be firm and take control.
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