My real life friend just died from cancer and I'm feeling sad and depressed what should I do?

Tamila RobertsIT IS NATURAL TO FEEL SADNESSf of losing someone you love or charish. Cancer can be a very painful death sometimes lasting a long time. It hurts to see and feel for a loved one, the pain and suffering.

The Lord has decided to take our loved one, surely to a place of no more suffering. Keeping that in mind,cherish all the memories and good times that one had while the loved one was here on earth. We were born here on earth that one day we would leave this earth for a new beginning, rejoicing in the kingdom of God.

You never really get over death. You just get used to the fact that the person is gone. The best thing to do is to live happy.

Even though you're sad that your friend is gone you're life is still continuing.

Go some where that you have enjoyed most e. G: to the beach or to the countryside. There is a certain pain in our life that only time can healed.

When my mother passed away suddenly and unexpectedly at the age of 54 I was stricken with sadness. But, what helped me the most was going through all my pictures and remembering all the crazy things in our life good and bad. I laughed and cried and talked about my feelings aloud even though I was alone in the room.

Plus I never really feel she is totally gone. She is always in my mind and therefore a part of my reality.

Ways that many people choose to eliminate the depression that are: 1. Listening to music (49 percent) 2. Roads (44 percent) 3.

Reading (41 percent) 4. Watching movies (36 percent) 5. Hanging out with friends or family (36 percent) 6.

Playing video games or browsing the internet (33 percent) 7. Nap (32 percent) 8. Pray (32 percent) 9.

Eating (28 percent) 10. Spending time hobby activities (27 percent) 11. Go to the religious (19 percent) 12.

Shopping (15 percent) 13. Smoking (14 percent) 14. Drinking alcohol (14 percent) 15.

Sports (10 percent) 16. Go to the spa or massage place (10 percent) 17. Meditation or yoga (7 percent) 18.

Visiting expert mental...So which one do you prefer?

My mom passed away 6 years ago from cancer. Time, time, and more time. Try to surround yourself with positive influences and sit by the water.

Water is calming and peaceful. I feel for you because the process is hard.

I'm really sorry to know you're suffering that much. Just think it the other way, he left this world where he had pain and struggling. I'm sure this is the best for him, you must believe that.

I know what you're suffering right now, I had this before when I lost my grandmother, I thought I won't be able to continue and I had too much pain in my heart too. I kept praying whenever I have this feeling. Whatever was your religion, do the prayers and ask god to help you, no body can help you in those cases but allah.

Just put your hand on your heart and keep praying, this will bring comfort to your heart. God bless you.

My mother-in-law battled breast cancer for a number of years and passed away last September. It is very difficult to experience and it is natural you are feeling sad and depressed. Overtime the sadness will pass and you will think of this person with fond memories.

Memories are special because they can never be taken away. Try not to focus on the sadness, but on the pleasures you both shared in life and how blessed you were to have that time you both shared. This person certainly would want you to enjoy life for him, not feel bad that he passed away.

Try joining a support group a senior citizens group, volunteer work, or invite others over for a special event. I realize it is difficult and it is always too soon for ones we care for to leave us.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.