My sister inlaw hates me because I married her brother?

You're so desperate to have a mother. It's very sad, even to me, to see you practically kill yourself to be the best daughter you can be. No one is perfect.

In fact, your mother is far from it. All you can do is try to let go. You're an adult now.

She can't push you around. Put up with her until you can move in with your boyfriend, and don't let your mother come between you and your boyfriend, because that's what she wants. Her goal is to make you unhappy.

She knows very well what she is doing, but she looks at you as her punching bag and thinks she has every right to do what she is doing, and she doesn't. To keep it calm, don't talk to her. Simple.

I know that sounds hard, but stay out of her way. Dedicate yourself to college and your work so when the time comes, you can leave her. This is your life.

You have to disconnect yourself away from things that are going to hurt you. If she insults you, say nothing. Leave the room.

Keep a journal and maybe a stress ball to help with your anger. If you need to see a therapist, I suggest so, so this doesn't get in the way with your college and health. You can try one last time and see about getting a family therapist, but I really don't think your mom will commit to it.

You have options, defiantly. I would suggest that if you want to try to get a family therapist or sit down with your mom and talk to her about how you feel, be prepared to look for somewhere else to live. Look for a net.

See if you can stay with a family member or a friend. Because if things go sour, she will kick you out. She is cruel and cold enough to do it, if it hasn't been that obvious yet to you.

If you have no where to go and you are just trying to get through the point until you graduate and you and your boyfriend move in together, follow my suggestion above. Avoid all contact with her. When she's in a room, avoid it or don't speak to her.

Don't even as much as look at her. She'll take it as a moment to insult you. When she does begin to insult you, excuse yourself.

Do all of this calmly. She has no reason to be mad at you if you don't give her a reason, and she'll just look crazy running around trying to insult you. If she lays a finger on her, this is the time to fight fire with fire.

She's a bully. Studies have shown that if you stand up to a bully under the sixty seconds they have started with you, they will most likely back down. But like I said, if you are going to take that approach, be ready to stay somewhere else because she will try to hurt you in every way she can.

I am sorry about this. Good luck.

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