My wife and baby are coming are coming home tomorrow im so excited.?

I guess it is weird you even ended up married if she wanted a child and you did not. I mean even if your relationship is great one wanting a child in a relationship and your partner never wanting kids is usually a big deal in a relationship and decided before marriage. If you agree to letting her have a child you need to step up now also.

This is a baby and it is a very big deal. If this is something you did not want then why would you get her prego in first place. Usually when planned both parties would be excited about the pregnancy.

U don't just get wife pregnant and then say oops I never wanted kids. Suck it up buttercup treat your wife like a princess and get ready for your baby together. If your relationship is as strong as you said it is then your relationship will still be great.

A mother will always put there child first though that is how it is and as a father you should do the same. U can have a family and a happy marriage. Get your wife some flowers bring her out to her favorite place to eat and tell her you just are scared and talk to her about how you think things might change with you two.

Good luck daddy.

Wow, you should not agreed to having a baby then. Otherwise, if you did, don't say anything further as the decision is done. Leave it at that.

The last thing a woman wanting to be a mom is to hear how much her husband does not want the child they produced. You need to deal with it and if you think it will ruin your marriage, that is really not the adult way to look at it. You have to deal with the challenges of marriages.

This is why more marriages in the past lasted longer- they knew how to deal with the ups and downs more. Find a way that you think your wife make her feel loved. That is what a loving husband does.

Good luck.

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