Wait it out....sometime in the near future.....infidelity will happen! It happens all the time with both men and women committing it. Facebook plays a big part in it too....people see an old friend and all of the sudden they are having a mid-life crisis and they are out drinking every other night with people of the opposite sex.
Give her the space and the rope to hang herself with....she will do it no matter what. What the hell is wrong with people who have families and go down the path of being alcoholic facebook cheaters? I can count over a dozen people I know off of the top of my head who have had facebook affairs...both men and women.
If you want to put up with it....God bless you for being a better man than I would.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.