She is obviously the aggressive domineering type and people seldom if ever change. Give her a final certain warning in a calm manner and if she fails it, as she almost certainly will, dump her before you waste all your life with her. Let another fool suffer, if he wants.
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I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.