He'll probably say yes something is wrong, you. If that turns out to be the case then about all you can do is call a good attorney. If a miracle happens then get him to a doctor to have him medically tested.
Blood work, films, everything. If nothing is identified there then you need a psychologist. I don't think counseling is strong enough.
You need a psychologist to make a diagnosis and suggest treatment. It would, of course, include you as you are part of this picture. Something is terribly wrong if this a relatively recent behavioral change.
I could ask a lot of questions like did he show signs of this when you were first married but it would be pointless. Only professionals are equipped to handle a situation like this. Certainly none of us here in Askville are qualified.
I really want you to think long and hard about the impact and role modeling that both of you are imposing on your daughter. It's all negative and that's not fair. In fact children then look at this as "normal" ... more.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.