The best book for pregnancy is what to expect when you expecting and it covered almost everything. I would be extremely upset if my son decided that early to start a family because I believe that education comes first- first you figure out you and then you figure out being a parent. The advice I would give to new mothers is get a support network and know that it is going to be 40% wonderfulness 40% exhaustion and 20% of OMG WTH absolute terror or disgust.
Another bit of advice is know that this will be the hardest and greatest thing you can ever do because everything will be about someone else, especially at first, and even if you have two people it can be hard (and expensive). It is also important to take personal time for yourself so you don't get overwhelmed and to have an arrangement about the personal time ahead of time And the final bit of advice is keep everything that you can from pregnancy and childhood and take many pictures. Giving birth was scary for me.
Everyone told me horror stories and made it sound like it was going to be a trauma and overall to be honest it was painful but you will get through it and there were some seriously and I do mean awful disgusting things involved but everyone who gives birth experiences the same things and afterwards it is worth it when your child comes. I ended up having a c-section so it was like having surgery. The epidural scared me and I hated that it seemed like everyone had come into my room and one point and said "lets see how far you are dilated".
I choose breast milk because it is better for the baby and it gives good bonding time but there is something that should be told to new mothers.... it does kinda hurt. The bonding you will get from it is wonderful. We breastfed exclusively for the the first week and after we had a combination of pumping and breast feeding so going out in public I could give him a bottle but you want to make sure you use breast at first so they learn to latch properly.
The best tips I can give you to conceive is to eat healthy, exercise and to take prenatal vitamins while trying because they have all the nutrients you need at first. Oh yeah and have sex two weeks after your period starts and then have it often. Having kids early can be great because you will get to spend your later years with grown children and you can decide on a bigger family better, however, it takes that time that is meant to be spent developing who you are as an adult and skips it.
I hope that you get the family you want at the time it is ready for you but before you get pregnant maybe you should get some of the supplies so that when you are pregnant you are not worrying about providing for your baby. That was my biggest struggle was having everything we needed and having it on time. Another post note.. you might want to enjoy a little time of normal sex before you move into, pregnancy sex, which can be fun, but can also completely ruin the mood.
(you have less body control and are more likely to pee and fart in the middle of it). You are young so you probably won't have trouble conceiving so be prepared to be pregnant shortly after you try.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.