People can be soooo horrible -What is the very worst thing someone has said/done to you?

That was when a person I considered a true friend of mine set me up and made people believe that I was a bad person. She really ruined my reputation. I was so shy, good-natured and religious but when that unscrupulous person came into my life as a true friend as she disguised, everything in me had turned to anger, hatred.

She was so nice, full of understanding, so thoughtful and all the caring but she only just wanted one thing for me - to ruin me. She envied me a lot because I was loved by the people around me. She always told me that this person and that envied me and she made stories just to make me angry.

And since I was just 18 at that time, I was quick to react and then there was this secret told by a friend that a woman who had no issue to me and the one this liar was talking about to me had an illicit affair so because I was angry, I had accidentally told it to this liar-friend and then that was the last time she got near me. She told the woman that I told her and that I was spreading bad about her when I only had heard it from a friend and I only have told it to her because I was just so fed up with her made stories/lies that I thought were true. Then everyone hated me because they believed her.

That broke my trust and until now, I couldn't seem to trust anyone. And since I believe in karma, maybe that really hit her. The traitor hanged herself and she died a year ago.

As many women can testify, the most vulnerable time in life is when we are pregnant. Our hormones are ravaging our otherwise rational emotions. We are more needy and apt to become annoying.

During a fight one day, my son's father yelled that I was gong to be a horrible mother. Just like my own and our child was going to suffer because of it. I was heartbroken.My own mother was less than adequate and a horrible example of what a mother should be.

He knew this and purposely used it to hurt me. He also knew how this was the most important event of my life, and throughout my entire pregnancy he was just awful. Of course we are no longer married, but I will never forget his hateful ways.

I don't remember why we were in a disagreement, but I'll never forget what he said.

My mom took away two of my dogs (on seperate occasions) when I was a kid. I was severly traumatized by both incidents, and as a result of this, I have a very hard time trusting anybody with anything anymore. It hurt severly because she was my mother, someone that every person should be able to trust, but at the age of 9, she broke it.

These days I am super protective of my pets as a result.

I have had people shootat me so I guess thats the worst but I guess you would have to consider where I grew up. Alot of people have had the bullets hit them.

The thing that sticks in my mind was when I was telling my sister that when my mother died, there would be no one alive who loved me unconditionally. She said that my mother never loved me unconditionally, in a very mean tone of voice. It broke my heart.

I couldn't really even mourn my mother after she died because of that.

I'm a rather overweight person and I've always felt that it probably is my fault that I am overweight, but I still do not like people picking on me. I have talked online to people I've never met before and of course besides the usual age and location info they want, they also ask what you look like. Well I always admit I'm a bit on the heavy side and I had one guy say, "How fat are you?"

Needless to say, I deleted him on my contact list.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.