Put in a VERY difficult situation, hidden secret in BF's family?

Get over it. Seriously you're not married so you have no right to get your panties in a bind. Actually my husband waited until we were together for almost 2yrs and we had started discussing marriage before disclosing his full financial situation.

He has a trust fund that is worth a very sizable amount of money. He didn't feel I needed to know about it until we were serious enough to think about marriage. He knew by then that my motivations weren't financial and that I truly loved him for who he is and not the size of his trust.

So when he asked me to sign a pre-nup I had no qualms about it. I have no rights to his family's money.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.