Ruined my relationship and took my girlfriend for granted. I broke up with her - I blew it. She wants to be friends?

Ruined my relationship and took my girlfriend for granted. I broke up with her - I blew it. She wants to be friends?

I broke up with my girlfriend because I got really mad at her at the same time was really stressed out and she got caught in the cross fire of my anger so I ended up breaking up with her, im such an idiot. I love her and ruined everything. I apologized to no end and let her know what I was feeling.

She says she meant it when she told me she loved me a couple weeks prior and she says she still misses me. But today she told me it wouldn't work regardless and she said we could still be friends. I blew it so I am willing to spend the rest of my life hating myself for what I did, but I am glad she still wants to be friends because she's very special and means a lot to me.

I have cried every day since. But can you share with me how it is like being friends after a long term relationship. Every time I see her, I think of our relationship.

Every day there was many triggers that remind me of her. I just feel like I will become more depressed especially when she finds a new boyfriend. Asked by Andrew580 31 months ago Similar Questions: Ruined relationship girlfriend granted broke blew friends Recent Questions About: Ruined relationship girlfriend granted broke blew friends Lifestyle > Relationships.

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Just be a true friend... If you truly love her like you say you do then BE A TRUE FRIEND. Give her space and be happy for her when she finds someone new, she will have to do the same for you. You sound like you are very young and I promise you that if you can be that much more of a friend by just being a true one than the people that you meet in your life time will always be there for you.

Ex girlfriends, and everyone else. That can really fill up and quickly mend heart break. Be strong and be true, she may just come back to you.

:) .

So now you know you need to control your anger. "i am willing to spend the rest of my life hating myself for what I did" If you're willing to be a walking suicide "my life is over," then there isn't much we can do here. But what I would say is begin, now, working to handle that anger, feel the pain, and let the pain of the anger wash over you while-you-do-nothing.

In a few years of this, maybe you won't do it again. Oh, and if she wants, be a friend--but no more than that.

1 It stinks. You will, one or the other, or both of you, decide to avoid the other because it's weird. When you do run into one another, if you do, it will be awkward and uncomfortable.

It stinks. You will, one or the other, or both of you, decide to avoid the other because it's weird. When you do run into one another, if you do, it will be awkward and uncomfortable.

2 You made a mistake. You are human, like the rest of us. Don't hate yourself for it.

If she knows how you feel about her, it would be up to her whether or not the two of you get back together. If you find it painful and depressing to see her, then don't. Try to move on with your life, and forgive yourself.

Regret does no good. I wish you luck.

You made a mistake. You are human, like the rest of us. Don't hate yourself for it.

If she knows how you feel about her, it would be up to her whether or not the two of you get back together. If you find it painful and depressing to see her, then don't. Try to move on with your life, and forgive yourself.

Regret does no good. I wish you luck.

3 Maybe she will love you again in the same way as you talk with her being just her friend. Don't panic...just pray and be positive. Anger doesn't help.

Bipolar? You talk about depression...untreated bipolar can cause people to lose many girlfriends.

Maybe she will love you again in the same way as you talk with her being just her friend. Don't panic...just pray and be positive. Anger doesn't help.

Bipolar? You talk about depression...untreated bipolar can cause people to lose many girlfriends.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.