Should I be concerned about my husband saying I am not his best friend? His best friend is a girl he known for a long ti?

S best friend is a girl he known for a long ti He says it is his opinion. He says the difference is that he love his wife but he doesn't love his best friend. I asked him if he can ever view me as his best friend and he said no.

He can't call me his best friend because I am his wife. I have to say, it sort of hurt hearing him say that. I view it differently.

I would like to call my husband my best friend and him me. It's frustrating because I just don't understand how many men can call their wives their best friend but mine can never? Asked by eloquent 4 months ago Similar questions: concerned husband friend girl long ti Lifestyle > Relationships.

Similar questions: concerned husband friend girl long ti.

If another woman is his best friend he may be holding onto something from the past. Maybe at one point she was his best friend, and he still wants that kind of "friend" in his life. I suggest you define what characteristics you attribute to a BF and ask your Hubby how he'd view them.

For example, are there things he can talk only to you about, and not his BF, or are there things he talks to her about and not to you? Who does he enjoy spending the majority of his time with? Etc.

Who knows, it may very well be that she's just a good friend. I had a great friend in HS, a girl very dear to my heart. Nothing romantic, even though at one point early on in our friendship I did want that but she had a BF and I didn't want to make a problem.

We're still friends, but my wife knows, in no uncertain terms, that she is my both my wife and best friend.

We all make mistakes. But you can fix this one.

I agree with you,my wife is my very best friend,mate,lover ,it is total disrespect for you the guy needs his butt kicked,and to say his best friend is another woman even lower,you 2 need to seek consuling.

Your husband is a jerk, a loser and total scum, let him go on the cruise with her, while he's gone, move his stuff out of the house, and say good riddance. He's placing another woman higher than you, that is totally unacceptable, he's disrespecting you, again totally unacceptable.

I can see how he would say this...but your role is not seem as important as her role. It takes many people to make a person happy...one person can't fill all the needs of a certain person. If it works...then don't worry.

He loves you....but in a different way. I wish a guy would be 100% only get his needs met by one person only...but in reality we can't fill those shoes. I think some people run from love...so friends they are not afraid as much as with the person they love.

Just stay happy and he will stay attracted to you. Rori Raye gives relationship advise on the internet...great ideas. I worked with men....we talked during work...but it was not a best friend...but we saw each other daily....I had no romantic interest in them.

I would be concerned. My fiance tells me I'm his best friend and I feel the same with him - we do a lot together and very much enjoy each other. Just because you married him, doesn't mean you 2 are right for each other.

This relationship sounds like it needs some work, maybe you guys should get some counseling.

Your husband or wife should always be your number one friend.

I think you both are handling this wrong. First, why is there a NEED to classify friends - like why can't he just say she is JUST his friend, while you are his wife, which makes you far more important. OF COURSE you are ALSO his friend, how could you NOT be?

By putting the word "best" in front of "friend", and making the distinction between a friend and a spouse, is what is making all of this so confusing. FACT is, you cannot be a wife without being his friend in the first place. I believe you are taking what he is saying way too personally.

He is a man, men rarely take the time to sit and completely explain anything to anybody. AND, he is NOT other men. You are choosing to be upset with how he keeps his friends and his marriage separate in his mind, that does not mean he is thinking OR doing ANYTHING out of line.

I totally understand what he means. My husband and I USED to have these types of miscommunications happen ALL the time. After several months of counseling, we now talk AND listen to each other completely different.

Amazing how that can so drastically affect your relationship.

Love is taking our partner's faults, and understanding them. If he is faithful,put's you first,and is romantic with you. You ARE his best friend,he just doesn't know it.......yet.Be good!

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