Should you ask if your spouse owes money on a credit card or should they just tell you?

You should ask them. If it's an emergency, then ask them. If you were just curious, then you could wait for them to tell you, or you could still ask.

If this case is an emergency, then just ask casually. Don't freak out, screaming, or anything. Just bring it up in a conversation.

Then, if everything is calm and still, it should work out fine. If he/she starts yelling at you for asking, then you married the wrong person! (Just kidding!).

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