Should you date someone who use to be gay for 2 years, he siad he didn't like it. Can someone change from that lifestyle?

Should you date someone who use to be gay for 2 years, he siad he didn't like it. Can someone change from that lifestyle Asked by Theonlytruth 6 months ago Similar questions: date gay years siad change lifestyle Lifestyle > Sexuality.

Similar questions: date gay years siad change lifestyle.

The thing about gay people is that it's something they can't help and they've been that way since birth. If someone "used to be", they're not gay. If they didn't like it, they're not gay.So there's nothing to change.

This is a straight man who was experimenting.

There are people of flexible sexuality that can comfortably go both ways, but there are also folks that are unsure or unstable or influenced by social pressures to conform. In the end the decision is yours, but a lot of people will suggest that you don't.

It does happen, but I'd be suspicious. It took him two years to realize he didn't like it? Being gay is difficult for a lot of people.It can cost you family, friends, and co-workers.

Discrimination and name-calling aren't fun. On top of that, there are all the usual difficulties of relationships, same as for straight people: arguments, incompatibilities, loneliness, jealousy, etc etc etc.So, while people's tastes can sometimes change, a complete 180 change in sexual orientation is rare. He may be trying to take a break, hoping that things will be easier for straight people.

If so, he will be disappointed. That doesn't mean you can't date him. I can't even begin to guess what's going through his head.

As with any relationship, it's hard to know where it's going to go at the outset. Ask him to be as honest as he can with you, and your relationship can be as good as any other.

He could only change if he was not ever gay to begin with, which is unlikely. Otherwise, no, although you can stilll enjoy his company. It is pretty certain that in a short amount of time he will return to his gay lifestyle or to you and his gay lifestyle.

Don't let him do that to you.

Is right again: one can change from preferring homosexuality to actively choosing heterosexuality, but the change is difficult and does require a very strong commitment. Not you, but does HE have that level of commitment? .

It is entirely possible that he was living a homosexual lifestyle but was not really gay. - there is great debate about the nature of homosexuality - and I don't think anyone has a definitive answer yet.

I think a person is born gay...but some experiment and try it. They may just want love where ever they can find it.

They may make make a decision not to follow that lifestyle because they want a heterosexual marriage with children, but that doesn't change their orientation. Sooner or later, they will be compelled to follow their instincts, and the person who is involved with them will experience a lot of unhappiness. I would urge him to get counselling and perhaps when he comes to terms with his sexuality, he can make a decision as to which lifestyle he wants to follow.

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