I know what you mean. I dated a taurus, he'd wait for me to show affection, make contact, and YET HE LIKED ME, but just sat there waiting like a princess. Aquarius man I dated tended to have this 'entitlement' attitude, like he was a king never dated a scorpio leo, OMG... they are the biggest "i'll wait to you text me, because I'm too busy because popular' (even though they are not busy) I've seen you around hazel.
I like your face pictures lol :-) my feeling lately is that cardinal signs are the best to date.. it might be as I am a cardinal sign.. cancer. But they always show effort, or at least you can sense their effort, rather than sitting around on a throne. Mutable signs can be flaky to me, but I just feel this way because I have a fixed chart.. maybe I am sitting on my throne who knows :P leo venus, leo mars, leo descendant, scorpio moon, aquarius rising.
My boyfriend is Aqua (a fixed sign) and he's NOT egotistical at all but he's stubborn and selfish.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.