Under what circumstances (if any) would you ever consider staying with or going back to an abusive spouse?
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I would never consider staying with them or going back to them. I was in an abusive marriage for 11 years. We had 3 children and I admit I should have left long before I did.
But I was scared and my self esteem had been torn down. Even now I suffer from self esteem issues. I wouldn't recommend staying at all.
Even if they are taking anger management therapy it would take time for any real progress to come about and the risk is just too great. As for going back to them I wouldn't do it but I guess it would depend on the situation.
I do not think anyone should stay or go back to an person who was physically abusive. I think if anger management has been an active part of the person who did the abusing it might be okay but take it slow. I would make very sure that the person actually went to the course, and do not take their word on it.
I don't think that anything would make me go back to someone that is abusive. People have to want to change and nothing you say or do will work. It's best to separate yourself from that situation and taking care of yourself.
Only if they went thru an anger management course. It has proved very helpful to correct behavior.
If I have gotten myself out of that environment, then I think it is best I never go back. I understand dealing with the problem with help from a counselor, but if there was abuse, then I need to make sure I have had a chance to gain my self worth back. Abuse isn't one person changing, it is for both and so it is best to stay clear of the other person once you are free.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.
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