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Stop vleaning and jet a Job even just a part time job.
You have both got to stop placing the blame on each other. You're married for better or worse, for richer or poorer- til death do you part. Marriage is not easy.
Sometimes it's great, and there are phases where it's unbearable. Either get counseling, or go the cheaper route and lay it allllll out on the table. Tell each other how you make the other feel.
Out of curiosity, why doesn't she put you on her insurance? You're married...? You both have medical issues. Tell her you can take a part time job if she helps part time when she gets home from work.
The fact that she's got kidney stones... does that have anything to do with sex? Maybe it's painful or uncomfortable for her to do so in her condition? I don't think all of your problems can be answered here, but find a way to open the lines of communication.
If she is unwillling, you will have a choice A) stay in the currect situation or B) leave. Seriously though... I am not judging, but, I work ALOT. I am "on call" 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.
I am always tired, NEVER getting a full straight 8 hours of sleep. I still cook, clean meticulously, and do laundry. Are you SURE you can't find a job?
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