Well, I was served with divorce papers. This is BAD!?

No, it is not your fault. He doesn't know what he wants. You did the right thing.

No need to feel bad. If he thinks you after his money, so be it...I think you need to be compensated for all the hurt he's put you thru also. What does he expect from you...to wait for him to make the first move..is he upset that you filed first for a divorce..? Clearly, he has controlling issues, and that is not a good trait.

There is always light at the end of the tunnel..take heart, be brave, you will get thru this. Gud Luck!

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.