What are some tips for keeping the spark in your relationship?

These are many ways to bring more spark to a relationship. First is open communication. My husband and I developed a language of our own where only the two of us will understand.

We use this as a flirty way to connect with one another sort of playful thing. I give him a pleasant surprise like cook his favorite dish or give him a back massage. I never fail to say I love you and mean it each time I say it.

We play together and this is a form of bonding together. We go for a quiet walk early in the morning and share ideas and plans. We always celebrate our anniversary with a romantic dinner, actually he is the one who beat me to it and never fail to surprise me.

He massage my feet especially if I am tired from walking and doing the chores. The most important thing of all is to never fail to be sensitive to each others need. I may be a mother now to our two children but I never forgot to become a wife.It is not easy though for children requires a lot of time and attention but it is not very hard to do because he is there to help me so I can manage my time.

My husband takes part in caring for our children and helps also in guiding them through their homework. S active participation in caring for our children and doing his share of work in the house is very important too because it showed how much he cares and that make our relationship more exciting.

Make time to spend together, actually paying attention to each other or doing something fun together -- watching a movie, playing a game, doing some sort of sport. Always hug and kiss each other hello and goodbye. Hold hands or walk arm in arm when you are out and about.

Make yourself fantasize about your spouse just before you get into bed together, to get yourself in the mood. Make up your mind to want to be with your spouse, and to make them a priority. Pay attention to what they say.

Laugh at their jokes. Never speak ill of them to anyone.

Some tips for keeping the spark in your relationship is to keep it a little mysterious, meaning don't be too predictable. Leave some mystery for each other to wonder. There's something about that mystery that makes you want to come back for more and more.

You wonder what's going to come next. But don't tease (not in a way to leave your partner confused and feeling like you're sending mixed signals). Try new things together (go traveling, bungee jumping, etc.).

Buy something for each other, even if it's not a special occasion. Don't wait for special events to do something nice for your partner. Surprise your partner and keep him (or her) intrigued.

Try creative way of getting into your partner's mind without having to dig for the answers. Don't tell your partner everything about yourself. Let your partner explore that in you.

Hope this helps.

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