I have a friend with Asperger's. I just tell him straight out.
It's important to name the violation clearly. Example: "When you text me fifteen times at 1am, it is inappropriate. I do not feel comfortable when you do that.
Then provide specific information on what he should change and what effect that will have: "Do not text me after 7pm and only send me 10 texts a day. If you want to send more, just ask me and I will tell you if that's okay with me. If you do that, I will feel comfortable and you will be behaving appropriately toward me.
Then reinforce the positives: "I appreciate your desire to communicate with me, because you're a great person to know.
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