Asserting yourself helps in relationships because it shows the other person that you have respect for him, as well as for yourself. It is a way for you to effectively maintain limits you set for yourself, as well as to negotiate conflicts without damaging relationships. Communicating assertively also leads to improved self-esteem, as you learn to leave old, ineffective patterns of communication behind and begin to interact with others in a healthy way that will be more likely to meet your needs.
Apart from relationships, however, asserting yourself is simply a way of being more effective in the way you communicate, as you express yourself clearly and concisely. So whether you're interacting with a sales clerk at a store, your psychiatrist or therapist, your partner, a close friend, or a coworker, assertiveness will help you say what you want to say, be understood, and get what you want out of the interaction.
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