What can I do to garner respect from my wife?

I don't think he loves you. If he loved you and cared for you, he would be willing to and happy to do the housework for you and will not make you have a hard time. That's what love is about.

Willing to do anything to make the other happy. But it's not your fault. He's probably not capable of love no matter who his partner was.

A loving person is capable of accepting different people with a big heart. It's who he is by nature. I don't think he will essentially change.

You can either accept him for who he is, or not. He seems incapable of love. Some people are like that.

By the way hes wrong because a lot of married people love and care about each other and feel the happiest with one another. Why don't you just view him as a business partner and your children's father? Maybe you can seek love with someone else... it may end up in a divorce but maybe you'll be happier .

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.