That just means that either shes shy or she was put up 2 it. One thing you should do is confront her about see what she has to say. If she totally blows you off then shes not right for you.
The main thing is not to give up there are many fish in the sea all you gotta do is look.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.