What is your opinion on cheating? Is it right or wrong to tell someone you've cheated on them?

It's a little bit of a tricky question. If a woman cheats on her violent abusive husband while on vacation with her girlfriends, it probably would not be healthy for her to admit she did so. There are other instances when a cheater tells her or his mate soley for the purpose of taking a load of guilt off of their shoulders.In effect they are suddenly being honest so THEY will feel better.

Having said that we do live in the age of AIDS, Herpes, and Genital Warts. (diseases with no cures) It's wrong to put someone else's health at risk. Everyone knows the right thing to do is NOT to cheat/betray their mate in the first place.

If you're unhappy leave. Some people treat relationships like jobs. They won't leave one until they have another one lined up.

Those who find themselves in "sexless marriages" aren't likely to tell their spouse if there are other benefits to remaining in the marriage.

Personally, I hate cheating and cheaters. It betrays trust, love, hope and the future and brings dire consequences. Thanks.

Cheating is wrong. Once a cheater always a cheater. My husband cheated on me for months when I asked him about it he lied to my face.

He didn't even have the balls to tell me to my face when he did finally come clean. He had to do it from another County and through a text message.

Trust is the #1 ingredient in any relationship. Without trust the relationship will never be healthy. IF you cheat on your significant other, the only way to attempt to reestablish trust would be to tell them.

Or better yet, just don't cheat in the first place. Because I've always said that I'd rather a woman leave me and spit in my face than cheat on me. I think it's the cruelest thing you can do to someone you allegedly love.

The truth is the most important aspect of a relationship ... if you cannot tell the truth then the relationship is flawed and will not carry on for long.

I think cheating is wrong, I think it is for people who think they can have whatever they want in life, for people who are afraid of commitment, for people who are just plain stupid. I have never cheated and I never will. If for some reason I ever did, I would be honest and tell my bf I wouldnt hide it, I think he you want to be with someone else you need to leave the one your with first.

@dashingscorpio If the person is in an abusive relationship then they need to leave anyway, I don't support abuse, but I do think that the women who don't leave have no one to blame but themselves.(no I am not tryign to sound like a bitch, I want to be a social worker, I have helped many women get out of abusive relationships and I've even had women tell me they didn't wanna leave because they were in love, I'm sorry but even if I loved my abuser I would cherish my life more and if we cant get these women to see that then unfortnatly there is really nothing else we can do for them. ).

Cheating is an unfortunate and regrettable thing that should not happen. You could tell your partner if he or she suspects or if you cannot bear the guilt. Otherwise, avoid telling them if they do not know as it will heart them so much.

Cheating is wrong. But, if it was just a heat of the moment thing, and the cheater has the guts to tell their partner, I believe it can be talked over and sorted out. I believe in second chances, everyone does things they regret.

However, if it was an ongoing thing, with the same person, more than once, totally wrong! There is no way that can be forgiven, it is such a thoughtless, selfish thing to do.

No.......No way.......!cheating is totally wrong thing. If you cheat someone for good intance,than it is good. But cheating someone for your own purpose is not good.

Specially today,teens are used to cheat a girl or a boy in love. That's totally wrong thing.....

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.