What makes a man kind and caring one minute then nasty the next?

Your husband has given a warning that he can abuse you physically. The fact that he hit his forehead on yours is a sign that if you push him too much then he will abuse you physically. Your marriage is not a healthy marriage.

And if you can't fix it then you need to end it. Your husband does not sound like he can be trusted and you need to dig in deeper so you can find out if he wants to end the marriage. There is no such thing as he loves me one minute and the next he don't.

He either loves you or he doesn't. Your husband needs to be honest with you.

It's called the BABY he liked having the young tart and the hot sex and the baby has screwed that all up. The baby ruined the relationship not you. Maybe time to ask if he wanted a kid?.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.