What should I do about this guy? PLEASE HELP 10 points rewarded for best answer, PLEASE :(?

First off, you're 18 and that girl is gonna be out of your life very soon so don't even dwell on her. You won't even remember her that much in 2 years... I felt the same way about arch enemies I had in high school...Now I can't even remember them! Second, your life sounds much much much more real than hers.

And that's a good thing. Cuz when she falls, which is more than likely to happen since she's going into a VERY tough industry with tons of competition, she's going to fall HARD. And it'll be the first time, it seems, that she's fallen so she will end up in a huge rut... As for you, being a midwife is SO much more rewarding than just doing makeup for movies.

You are bringing lives into the world. You are helping moms who are pregnant and need support and a helping hand. What on earth is more rewarding than helping a fellow person in your job?

You are doing what you want to do, and it shows that you have a TON of compassion in your heart. Who cares about anything that's happened in high school. Your life is going to be much more rewarding and it will be YOURS.

So own it. Embrace it. You'll meet the man of your dreams who will be there for you and love you forever.

You could even meet him soon! Who knows? But just be yourself.

((By the way, it's actually very very common for Indian women to make it in the medical field... I don't think I've ever had a doctor that wasn't Indian...)) Don't deactivate facebook... Just sigh and get over her. Own yourself. Own who you are.

You sound SOOOOO much more attractive than her anyway. You sound down-to-earth (which is what people, especially guys like most as they grow up and mature). I really, really hope I helped!

Edit>> Omg please ignore Firsty! She sounds like a bratty teenager. Ignore her, seriously.

Some people on here just like to bash EVERY post they see... It gets annoying. Edit>> Firsty, HUSH! Are you telling me that you've NEVER been jealous of anyone in your life ever?

Good god, get off your high horse and realize EVERYONE has personal struggles and this is hers. Instead of BASHING her for it, either shut up and just roll your eyes and quit judging HER or try to offer some decent advice. People like you only make things worse, not better.

Not sure what you're even trying to accomplish?

I want to help you if I can but know I'm only a 15 year old, half Polish/Filipino girl. I don't really care about the points and stuff. I knew some of your troubles (maybe not on the same level) I'm very jealous of people, who just seem to have it all.

And like you I've never dyed my hair, I wear makeup maybe once a week, and looking to get all natural makeup if anything. And I'm trying to go all natural with everything from what I eat to what I put on my hair. My point is when I was reading through your troubles and concerns, I keept thinking of how similar we are.

I know your pain, my hair has never wanted to be nice with me, I never felt as pretty as anyone I know. But Im slowly embracing my beauty and setting goals for myself, when Im done with highschool I want become a phisical theripist, and I want to get married and have children as soon as possible. Anyways Im doing much better, and don't ever let any person make ou feel any less than what you are :).

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.