What was your teenage fantasy of the idea man or woman? Did you ever get to date your fantasy?

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I wanted to date a ballet dancer/scientist When I was a teenager, the girls I had crushes on were all ballet dancers, and I thought they were super sexy. Something about the active, muscular body type and the artistic inclination seemed to me like the perfect combination. I also loved science, so I thought a scientific woman would probably be the best match for me.

Now that I'm older, I realize how silly that was. I've learned that very specific ideas about who your match should be are often too focused to be realistic. I thought I wanted a dancer, but what I really wanted was someone who was creative and liked to engage in sporty activities.As I gave up on the idea of only having a dancer, I realized that I was also attracted to women who engaged in a number of different activities from swimming to soccer to rock climbing to surfing to skiing.

It was the active nature that attracted me, not just the dancing - my experiences as a teen were limited so that the sexy women I knew who were active happened to be dancers, so I thought dancing was the key ingredient. It's no surprise, looking back on things, that many of the women I knew in high school took dance classes.At the time, I didn't take that into consideration. The scientific element was that I wanted a woman who was creative and inquisitive.

She didn't have to be a scientist, she just had to have an interest in learning and a desire to create and experience life. Again, my teenage experiences were too limited, and I took what I knew, that scientific women were attractive to me, and just went with that, rather than examine what it was about the girls which really attracted me. I ended up with a baker who loves art and boogie boarding.

Pretty far from a biologist ballerina, but with the same key elements. She's creative, she loves to make new things and learn about the world around her and how it works, she likes to get out and get active, and she's sexy as all get out. Both in my personal life, and as a dating coach, I have learned that expanding your conceptions of what is sexy will greatly increase your success in dating.

Also, if you realize that your teenage fantasies are based on a very small experience both in terms of time and people met, and you're willing to expand your horizons, you are likely to find that what you though was important might be too narrow and might even be off base completely..

Not married yet but...... I’m dating this awesome girl now and she’s not the person I’d have fantasized over, but thank God I didn’t get my fantasy girl because all the girls that run in my dreams seem to be a little too overdone when I meet someone like them in real life. You know 6 foot blond and double d is great to fantasize over but that doesn't exactly make life perfect.

Met him, married him... And of the twenty years we were married, he was unfaithful on the sly for about fifteen of them. Divorced. Remarried nine years later to the world's most wonderful man.

But I would not have thought so when I was in my snotty twenties! Now I see character and kindness and faith in God. Before I saw handsomeness, a good physique, etc.Etc.

I'm blessed that my husband now is also good looking, but that certainly isn't necessary when you have the heart he has. If I had the priorities as a teen that I have now, I would not have married that 'other' guy!.

Her. She was my ideal woman. I also had this thing about Linda Ellerbee believe it or not.

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He was good looking,good job(9-2-5),loving,gentle,faithful & good father to our 2 children(1girl-1boy) .

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