What will help me to accept that my dying mom is going to treat m badly to the end and nothing I do will help?

I agree with the ER with an ambulance if she is in this amount of pain. They can relieve her pain and if nothing else can be done for her then hospice is an option. At least she can get her pain under control which is what anyone needs that is in this much pain.

They can also check her out. I don't understand that she hasn't had a chance to get the tumors out. If you have a benign tumor, it wouldn't matter but if she has cancer then she should have had treatment right away.

Call 911.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.