You just have to be firm (not abusive, but set boundaries). Don't set a rule one day, and forget to follow through with it if your son breaks it the next day. Consistency is key.
Right now, you have to be your son's guide in this world. You don't get to be his best friend until much later.
Your son do not need punishment he need your love and attention He is frighten by school and rebel Each night and every morning tell him how much you love him and when he will be back from school if he had behave politly he will receive a special treat if he ask what it is ;; tell him in his ears ;; with a very soft voice ;; its a secret I raise 5 sons.
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