When your boyfriend is being an ass, how do you raise the issue without making him mad and how do you manipulate him to change his bad behavior?

You just tell him if you don't change right know im walking out the door so you have 30 seconds to change your behaivor.

If its destructive behavior you should get help. If he not right hes not right! Don't put him thru it or yourself it if he doesn't make the cut.

If hes has more in the plus column then remember your the one with problem so you need to modify your position and find a compromise. If all else fails my wife knows I'm a sucker for bribery.

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