Why can't we just be ourselves around a man or woman we just meet and like, instead of putting?

I think when we meet someone of interest, we tend to "fear" meeting their standards, when in fact it should be the other way around. "them meeting ours", if one desires a lasting relationship. I think this stems from low self esteem.

You don't get a second chance to make a first impression and that makes a lot of people nervous. Putting on a act to please a person is the thing that will most likely lead to a divorce latter on.

You don't get a second chance to make a first impression and that makes a lot of people nervous.

Putting on a act to please a person is the thing that will most likely lead to a divorce latter on.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.