Most women prefer cuddling, kissing and hugging more then sex. Women feel sex is something a guy HAS to have and they'd have sex with a chicken if a woman wasn't handy. But cuddling is not driven by base need and shows true affection.
Your too young to remember but not all that long ago women used to close their eyes and pray until sex was over. If their husband hugged them they would go crazy with joy. THAT was showing he saw her as more then a form of relief.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.