Why do I miss still miss my best friend...?

Only if people could get over relationships like this much more easily. Think about it this way, someone is in a bad relationship, say with a parent, would you still want to have a relationship with you parent even if you never felt close? The answers should be, yes, however you would want the relationship to be better in whatever way, however most relationships do not work that way, yet people still lust for good, healthier, happier relationships Being in a good relationships can be 10 if not 1000 times harder to get over because you were friends in a good happy friendship with someone for a long time.

You don't expect the relationship to go bad, but something starts to happen and your at each others necks and you lose a friendship. It feels bad not being friends, not being able to talk with someone who feels the same way about something, being hurt by the person your trusted, just in a bad way. It kind of makes you feel like you wish you didn't feel anything, people had no feeling, you wouldn't care if you had friends or not However things can never be exactly how you want.

You need to start getting closer to your other friends, and relying on them. If they are your true friends than they should help you through your hard times Nothing is replaceable, items, animals, friends etc... You just need to build up your bonds with your other friends to try and recover. Get closer with your friends, or try to find a new best friends.

Don't go out and frantically search for someone who turns out to be even worse, carefully search and find someone who shares your same interests, feelings and who you can connect with I hope you can find other friends and move on with your life, don't dread on the past. Look forward to the future with new friends, and better friendships. :) Good Luck Scott.

Im a guy first of all and I had a friend who was a ***** but I didn't see because I was a dumbass and he has been my "friend" for 10 haven't talked to him for like a year and I hate that mf now that I think about him I just think about other stuff to do its easy just don't be sitting around all day thinking about something and do something to take it out of your head the future is what matters not the past.

Because you still care for her. You still like her, start small conversations with her, small talk and then see where that gets you.

Because she was your best friend for five years, thats why. My old best friend of 6 years is still hard to let go for me. She didn't mistreat me but she rarely ever calls me, and when I call her or text her she RARELY responds back unless SHE has a problem and needs advice.

Then when I invite her out, she doesn't respond, or she'll agree to the plans and either not come or cancell on me like literally five minutes before we're supposed to go out. She was your best friend for 5 years, you guys share tons of memories, happy moments, sad moments, you guys know everything about each other it's so hard to let go of someone like that, but you have to remember she mistreated you. It's normal to miss someone that had always been there for you... but you cannot be with someone who is obviously self-centered and selfish if she cannot apologize for what she did to you.

I m sorry to hear about your problem I truly empathize with u. Looks like your friend doesn't really know the meaning of friendship. IT WAS RUDE ON HER PART for mistreating you .

And even more disgraceful to try using your secrets in manipulating u. ( probably she was trying to win you back ) Please try to forget her. She is not worth the time you r wasting in missing her.

I had a similar experience when I had to break up with my best friend . I too used to miss her . But now im happy she is no longer a part of my life .

Sometimes in life, we r better off without those relations which instead of easing away our stress, adds burden and strips away valuable energies of our well being. Time will heal your wound. Good luck.

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