Why do men cheat on their wives.?

Well, it can be a range of issues that might drive either a husband or a wife to cheat on their spouse. It's important to preface any discussion about adultery with the point that cheating is not gender specific. I feel the main root of any cheating situation is that the spouse who is committing the act is unhappy with some facet of their relationship.

This isn't always the case, as sometimes it's pure heat-of-the-moment sexuality or having the capacity to be in love with more then one person equally. However, it seems the common trend is that people just become dissatisfied with one another. Lose of attraction, diminishing of sexual appetite, conflicting professional ambitions, marriages born solely of circumstance or tradition - there are a million reasons that drive people to become unhappy and then cheat on their spouses.

You'd be surprised at how many of the reasons are unisex issues, shared by both men and women. If you're unhappy, you're probably going to look for an outlet or an alternative to fulfill your needs. Many people don't want to "rock the boat" as it were, and thus they deceive their spouse while they look for and engage with others.

Obviously, ending a marriage can be messy and while people commonly cheat because they are dissatisfied with their spouses, sometimes they still enjoy the normalcy and safety of their general married lives. So overall the anxiety feeds into the deception and vice versa.

Stop trying to blame what the innocent spouse is or is not doing. They cheat because they want to and opportunity presents itself. Plain and simple- they wanted to.

People who sit around and tell their spouses every day like a routine that they love them should stop saying that lie and tell them they are not happy and would like to separate ( of course this is more complicated with children involved) just because its a comfortable situation or they don't have the guts to own up. Those are a couple of very sad and cowardly choices. Cheating on someone who thinks you are being faithful is just simply WRONG.

How can you love someone in anyway and face them everyday lying to their face --that is not any sort of love or respect. If you loved and cared about them you would not want to lie to them or devastate them in any form. That is not love of any kind.

You would want them to also have the opportunity to find their own true happiness even if temporarily they will be hurt you want them to have what they deserve also. Every person deserves to be treated with the same respect that they give. Of course this answer is not for people in abusive or very scary relationships.Im talking about the people that are together for a few or more or many years and one of them thinks everything is okay because the other is not brave enough to say that they are no longer happy or this or that is not working for them.

Either decide if they want to try to fix it or go their own way. But deceitfulness is the loserly and cowardly way to go. Why cheat just break up and go have sex with everyone you want.

You are using this person while you go do whatever you want so things don't get uncomfortable. It is really sad how many people say they are "in love" get marry and then decide it is just too much work when the first disagreements start.So easy to just quit and so hard to have a sucessful long marriage or relationship these days. Relationships are HARD work no matter how much they love you or vice-versa.

People want right now and very easy these days.

Because they find better qualities on other women than their wife.

For me, the answer is easy, the reason why men cheat on their wives because they find better qualities on other women than their wives. So women, struggle to keep your image and appearance the best!

Because, in my experience, we think we would be happier with someone else. We don't realize that our happiness has nothing to do with who we are with, usually it has to do with internal emotional issues. But we want to make our happiness your job, so when we aren't happy, we start to think it might be your fault.

Then we go looking for someone else who might make us happy. It's an ugly and twisted problem, when someone is unhappy, man or woman, and they don't have the insight to realize that it is an internal, personal thing. So they spend time and energy trying to find external solutions, that never really work out.

Both women and men cheat for the same reasons. Every situation/relationship is different just as every person is different. None the less the person cheating has a "need" of some kind.

This is the motivation for all human behavior. We tend to do what we feel we need to do in order to feel good. Having said that (there are 3 basic types of cheaters.)Once again the reasons are the same for both women and men.

1. The Incessant Cheater This individual has no intention of honoring any vow or promise they make. He or she is always looking for the next thrill or something "new".

Their motto is "Variety is the spice of life. "2. The Unbelievable Opportunity CheaterThis person actually intended to be faithful and is not "looking " to betray their partner.

They give into temptation when an "unbelievable opportunity" presents itself. An extremely attractive person who shows interest in them, a girl or guy they had a crush on in school comes to town and wants to "hang out" and last but not least a famous celebrity or politically powerful person offers what appears to be "A once in a lifetime opportunity" to have sex with someone of their statureTheir motto is in line with Oscar Wilde's famous quote."The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it" 3. The Discontented CheaterThis person believed they found their soul-mate and never dreamed they'd be considering cheating.

Unlike The Incessant and The Unbelievable Opportunity Cheater, The Discontented Cheater feels as though his/her partner is forcing them to "seek other options" outside of their relationship.It's not a stretch for them to feel "justified" in seeking other ways to fill a need which is not being met. Depression often serves as motivation to take a risk. Octavio Paz said, "A flower without a stem, is beauty waiting to die.

A heart without love, is a tear waiting to cry. I think the reason most people ask "Why? " is because they hope they can prevent something bad from happening to them or find a way to stop someone from doing harm to them.(Cheating)In reality the only people we can completely control are ourselves!

You can't stop anyone from cheating who wants to. All you can do is look to become involved with people who place "HONESTY" at the top of their relationship acquirements. Keep the lines of communication open and never neglect or take your mate for granted.

Thats all YOU can do. Your power comes from selecting the right people to be a part of your life not changing people into what you want them to be.

Man cheat for several reason, it could be because they need something different in there life. Or it could be because they need a sense of direction or they just don't know what they what. You could be the perfect woman for him, he still will be searching inside.

You don't have anything to do with his cheating. However the question we have to ask ourself, will you stay or go?

Plain and simple, we men are (most of us at least) stupid and fail to see the good things we already have in life.

Some men cheat for the thrill of it. However, there are many men out there who are very faithful and loyal to partners.

Because she gloats when she wins, so when she's not looking I sneak a $500 from the bank when we're playing Monopoly.

All men are not like this. Only few of them can't stick to one woman because of their lusty habits. Such people never get satisfaction out of any of the relation they had with any women.

We have seen lot of men who never found to have cheated their women and in fact they are the role model of their women.

Let me list my answers:1. They married the wrong woman2. They found their real love3.

They do not feel complete4. They feel as if they are being used5. They feel as if nothing changed6.Sometimes... cheaters are just idiots.7.

Black mail8. Money.

All men do not cheat on their women. The ones that do are probably a bit greedy.

I suppose it depends on the person. Everyone has their own motivation for doing what they do.

Because they are dishonest! Unless you are looking for an excuse, then that is the only thing I can think of.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.