It works both ways. There are women who are happy to receive oral pleasure but not give it. There are women who are happy to give oral pleasure, but not receive it!
The same goes for men. It's not fair to say it is only women who do this. If someone likes to receive oral pleasure but not give it, this is not necessarily a double standard.
They could have a legitimate reason. It's worth finding out what these reasons are. E.g.Do they think they are not good enough?
Are they not sure what to do? Etc. Once the reason/s has/have been worked out, the couple can work on solving this.
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