Why is it that people will sit and bellyache about their issues instead of getting off their butts to change things?

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I know my reason. I'm not bellyachin', I'm explaining a situation, looking for someone who can offer suggestions on what to do with what is to me an impossible situation. Now telling you how I solved problems XYZ, that's boasting, and that is irritating unless my advice were sought on how to solve a problem like XYZ.

Think this the next time you hear "bellyachin'. " Maybe the person really needs ideas.

FINALLY! One I can answer! Fair warning, not a pretty picture and no one is to tell me how ghostly white I am right now!

I've been working on a bum foot for many months now and very restricted on my movements: SEE THAT? THAT is why I'm on my bum complaining and not getting up and doing something about it! AND futhermore, it didn't work!

They are repeating the surgery next week. GRRR! (by the way, that is my foot, you can't really see my ankle, because that is a week post-op and the swelling was still really bad.) Yes, I understand that you didn't mean this as litterally as I answered the question, I haven't flaked out, that bad, yet.

I'm with you. If something isn't going right in one's life, get off your duff and do something about it - or take the time you need to absorb what is going on and then deal with it.In fact, that is something I recently did. I took a mental break and vegged.

I didn't wallow, though. I really looked at things that have been going on and changed some things, too. I guess it's easier to complain than it is to fix things, though.

When you fix things, you have to accept your responsibility in things and understand that whatever is going on, you just may be part of your own problem. A lot of people don't like admitting they could be part of the source of the issue. I've learned.

It is far more freeing to just deal with the issue, than to hide from the issue! Sources: life .

2 Be careful what you ask for! My soap box is right here...dont make me get on it. :D .

Be careful what you ask for! My soap box is right here...dont make me get on it. :D.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.