Why is my wife so defensive about herself everytime I ask her a questions?

It is annoying to ask her that, was she a cheater before.

You should learn to trust her bec. It is an important ingredient in a relationship.

If you don;t truest her, you will always quarrel. It hurts when someone you love don't trust you.

Love and trust go together. If you are jealous or insecure, talk about it and explain how you feel, instead of questioning and doubting her answers.

Your wife is being defensive because the tone of your questions is accusatory, even though your intentions may be otherwise.

My mother was this way and it made it hell to live with her as a teen. She lacked diplomacy. You may, too.

" are you perhaps thinking, "I love it when I know you are thinking about me, and when you don't text me, I feel like you aren't thinking about me. " If that's the case, then TELL HER what you are really thinking, and forget the question altogether.

" you might say, "I tried to call but the line was busy. I was just missing you and wanted to say hello." See?

No question. But you've opened the door for her to say, "Oh, I was talking to (name). I'm sorry I missed your call.

" And if she doesn't tell you who she was talking to, so what? She IS an individual and is entitled to a life that only includes you but is not LIMITED to you. Understand?

I am not asked those questions in my marriage at any time. The best answer that I would give to you would be, what is the reason that you are asking her those questions. If you can get that figured out, then you should be at the bottom of it.

Hope this helps a bit.

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