Why some people make too many friends while others can't?

Some are introverts and some are extroverts ... some find it difficult to start a conversation and others sail through it. Some people enjoy deep discussions and others enjoy shallow discussions. Some have an attention span of 10seconds and others have hours... there are too many factors involved but I agree with man from modesto's comment about friendship.

This is what I believe: The people with many, many friends aren't really friends at all. They just tell people what they want to hear. A real friend tells you the truth.

Those who do not want to hear the truth, but just want to live however they desire, will reject people who are open and truthful. However, the best friendships exist between two people who are always honest with each other. All of this is relative to the philosophical life.

The rules of love are more simple. Where love is, honest friendships emerge and thrive. Love forgives even when there is a wrong.

Love can survive a trial, and friendships continue. My wife is like that... she is completely open and honest... but people love her and she has hundreds of friends all over the world.

Well that could be because they fear getting close to others. Insecurities, issues from childhood, broken heart from relationships. Usually it is a personal issue and nothing to do with you.

Although most people do internalize things it's really never about you. Others that make a lot of friends are more confident, feel good about who they are, are more focused on being happy and letting go of the past.

Those who are open minded and more jovial make too many friends fast. Some may be too selective in choosing friends. They may have very few friends and they consider them as their best ones.

Oh dear, this is what differentiates an extrovert from an introvert. Extroverts love to be surrounded by people hence they are friendly and have many friends. While introverts are happy and contented w/ their small circles and only reveal their true self to those they find worthy.

Also, introverts treat every relationship as a sacred personal loyalty.

I'm willing to bet almost every wiseGEEK reader took a quick survey of his or her own belly button situation just before clicking on this article. If you haven't already, you know you want to. For the record, innies are said to comprise 90% of the belly button population, with outies making up the remaining 10%.

The exact reason for this innie/outie belly button discrepancy remains a medical mystery, although there are some interesting theories floating around the Internet. The belly button, also called the navel, is actually the body's first scar. The umbilical cord, which supplied nutrients to the unborn baby, is routinely clamped off shortly after the placenta has been expelled.

Two clamps are placed a few inches away from the baby's body, and the cord is severed between them. The remaining vestiges of the umbilical cord eventually wither and fall off, leaving a small scar we know as the belly button. For many people, the scar is concave, meaning it recedes into the body.

For others, the remaining scar tissue protrudes slightly from the body. One theory holds that the innie belly button is the norm, while an outie is the result of a genetic aberration. Needless to say, this theory of natural selection does not enjoy widespread popularity among the outie belly button set.

There is no scientific evidence to suggest that an outie is genetically preordained, or that an innie is the default setting once the umbilical cord falls off. Another theory is that the doctor's handling of the umbilical cord can somehow influence the development of an innie or outie belly button. In reality, the umbilical cord is almost always clamped off several inches from the body, and the remaining cord cannot be manipulated surgically.

Once it falls off, the belly button scar is set for life. A surgical outie to innie conversion is theoretically possible, but rarely performed. Some believe that the outie belly button is the result of an abdominal hernia.

If the muscles of the baby's abdominal walls collapse through weakness, a condition known as a hernia, then the baby's belly button may protrude instead of remaining concave. While the herniated condition is indeed possible, the chance of it permanently influencing the direction of a belly button is minimal. The belly button's innie or outie status is determined primarily by the formation of subcutaneous scar tissue, not damaged muscle tissue.

While we're on the subject, there are a few factoids concerning the formation of belly button lint that I feel compelled to share. The most common color of belly button lint is blue, primarily due to the prevalence of blue fibers in modern clothing. Belly buttons also attract more lint from below than from above.

It's likely that more personal belly button lint came from your underwear and pants than from your shirt. I don't know what to do with this information personally, but you never know what might show up on a game show some day.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.

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