Would it be beneficial for me to change my viewpoint on sex and sexuality? Mature, thoughtful answers ONLY.?

You are 20 years old, every boy aroud you just wants to have sex, that is the reality. The view you have on sex is not wrong, but few guys will agree with it so if you want to change your view about sex, you should better understand sex and boys first. A) I don't know but I can give you a view from the guys side of things.

B) No, this is not going to cause you to not get a date. If he is not calling you back it due to the fact that he is looking for something else. If he is going for a one night stand then you don't want him to call back anyways.

As for your changing view on sex... First off you have to define "sex". Are we talking about full penetration or are we talking oral and/or masturbatory play? Being a virgin can mean a lot of different things to different people.

Sex for girls is almost always about the emotions and feelings involved, but guys do not care about all that, we just want to see boobies and get off. You can't blame us for that, were simple creatures. Don't have casual sex to make others happy.

The key to casual sex is it is ment to make you happy. The orgasm can be achieved in many ways and casual/fun sex is all about you and your orgasm. So what you are comfortable with doing is important because if you don't enjoy what you do its not going to work for you.

If you are thinking about going for a hook up just keep a few thing in mind. The greatest thing about hooking up is that you and your wants can come first. That is even better for you girls because getting a guy off is super easy.

Making him work for you is a must, and once you are finished you can let him have his turn. The key is to have fun while doing it. My usual advice is don't be afraid of trying some things out.

If it feels good, do it again and if you don't like where things are going, get the hell out of there. You are 20 years old and not a child but still very young. You will experience many things during these next few years and, while you will regret some of them, they will be the foundation of your sexual identity.

If having sex is something that you feel you are ready to try, go nuts. Try everything once and see how you feel about it. Just remember to be true to yourself and respect your feelings because few others will do it for you.

If you do give it up, just make shure that you and your feelings come first (pun intended).

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