Baby or beneficial career change? Which one would you choose if you could only do one?

I'd take the baby if the family could budget for another one and we had the time and energy and ability to give it the love and time that it would need. But I truly could not see getting my Master's now or in my 30's. As I know that would lead me to winding up in a managerial type of position that I have no desire to be in.

I much rather be a training and development specialist and enjoying that work even if it seems dead end to most, than to continue my education and start a new job I don't enjoy at all that gives more money and responsibilities, but takes me further away from the family I already have. Just wouldn't be something I'd be interested in and my motivation would be gone to keep working.

Definitely my job if I already had a child. I am not a person who has to have many children. I even plan to ever have one or two children, if ever.

I also think that career change will benefit my family better. If I have better career, I can support my family better rather than having more children but little means to support my family. If my job frustrates me, I'll also be less likely to be a good mother due to stress.

I won't be able to give as much affection as I can if I feel happy and fulfilled. There are many people who think they have to sacrifice everything for the sake of their children. I agree that we have to make sacrifice when necessary, but in this case, having another child is not a must, it is our own choice.

We cannot blame the child later on if we choose to forego the good opportunity.

I'd have the child. By mid-thirties your in a situation where you will pose health risks to have more children later. Where as with today's world you could easily study from home for a new URL1 may take a bit longer, but it is possible.

To me creating life exceeds working for it.

I would also choose the job if I had one child and felt unfulfilled in the job I had now. Here is a chance to have it all. But there are pros and cons for both.It is indeed a personal matter to decide whether career is important or a second child depending on your family background, health matters,financial aspects and whatever.

I would take the job opportunity for I already have a child to call my own besides this job will surely help me to give my child a better future, making a decision is truly hard but you must think about the possible circumstances your decision might give you.

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