Would you get all touchy with your husbands infront of your male mahrams such as your father and brothers, dear Muslimahs?

Self respect doesn't depend on how many partners you have unless the reason you have them is due to a psychological impairment. The idea that SELF respect should rely on someone else (boyfriend or husband) is ridiculous. And the idea that somehow being married to a person makes the relationship worth more is also stupid.

So if you have your names on a paper you're somehow better? Marriage is a social convention . Ancient people (iincluding Adam and eve) had no government to register a "marriage" with.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.