1 It used to be that way. Then, we got one individual in particular - and I'm sure you probably have this person in mind - who started in asking baiting questions. Can you say troll?
Add to that the proliferation of newuser questions and of course the bonus questions and people started getting fed up, tempers started getting short, and we have what we now have. I'm all for a kinder, gentler Askville, but until some of these problems are resolved - that one individual in particular - what we have now is what we're stuck with.
2 Actually, I think we're up two. The problem is, it becomes impossible to ignore. In one case, it's in your face obnoxious questions that pop up every few minutes.
Even banning the user didn't stop it because he came back, somehow. In another case, as one friend put it, it's like standing in a room and trying to ignore the fact that one person is kicking another in the corner while pretending it's a pleasant place to be. You can't ignore it and to do so just gives implicit approval of the bad behavior.
3 I understand all of this, OH, but if you just ignore this "one person" they would eventually go away. What fun is it to throw out baiting questions if no one takes the bait. I have seen anger all over lately and not just with this one person.
If you know you don't like a person, why even go there? There is way too much of other people following the ones they do not like around to constantly remind them how much they are disliked. It is just ugly and unnecessary.
4 I am sick of clicking the active button and finding the same ugly discussions popping up. If they were not responded to they would drop to the bottom of the active list. Mamasu, I understand that you do not want to stand by and watch someone get kicked, but sometimes these people go back time and time again for more kicks.
There are people who are otherwise very pleasant to come across, but seem to enjoy taunting those people who they do not like.
As a kid, I learned that those who are quick to leave their boyfriend for your company will be equally quick to abandoned you when a better deal comes along. And I also know that those who are pleased by causing problem and who love to select a victim for persecution would be just as apt to put you on the enemy list. So, I have a mental list of those folks and I simply don't include them in my Askville life (as I don't in my real life unless there are reasons that I can't avoid them --like if I work for them.
Baiters are on the list permanently and I don't rise to the bait. Plenty of others on the planet. And yes, Askville (and the World) would be a better place if the baiters are ignored.
Actually, since they have to have a victim, it is the worse thing you could do to them.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.