Am I intimidating or unattractive to guys?

No, not at all. You have a really good head on your shoulders and you have the right idea. Sure some....maybe a lot of guys are going to be turned off by your values on sex and that's Ok because you don't want to be dealing with those type of guys anyway.

Believe it or not there are plenty of good guys out there that won't have any problems with the things you are abstaining from.

Nothing wrong with not smoking, for many nothing wrong with no drugs (some ppl like a girl ok with weed), the no drinking might turn off more guys, but a handful won't care, but the real turn off here is the no casual sex. There are guys out there who won't mind, but a lot of guys hope for some within... a few days to 2 weeks if he really likes her. Like I said, this is the average guy, this is in no way true for all.Do you look for guys or do you find that no guys are looking for you, or do you turn them away?

If you are the one looking, where do you look, that is a factor as to what kind of thing the guys you see might be looking for.

Absolutely not. I'm 19 as well, don't drink, smoke or do drugs and don't have casual sex. I'm looking for the right girl for me to have sex with (obviously marriage).

It's not a turn off at all. There are plenty of people, like me, who want someone like you. In my opinion it's a turn on because you have high morals.

Anyone who says otherwise has different standards. You're unlike the other percentage of girls, you honest and respectable.

I think a lot more people than you think are the same way. Not everyone wants to lose their virginity by 12 and get knocked up with a baby by 16. I would rather be with someone committed than just hooking up with a random girl and waiting for her to "put out".

I am a Guy and just as horny as the next Guy! But man would I like to meet a good nice respectful girl like you. You may not no this but you are one in 10,000,000 wow do you want to get married.

You are the merrying type of girl.

No you are not --- don't wait too long is my suggestion and don't wait for the guys to approach you --- the polite ones won't for fear of offending or annoying you --- so why not, if you see someone interesting ask them out --- have fun.

If that is unattractive to a guy he's obviously not the right guy your perfect guy will be more attracted to you because of those same things. And you've got my respect, girl!

This is when a guy is most likely attracted to you. Don't you change. Not at all.

He will come one day and bless you with a wonderful man that won't need to be inside anything of yours except your heart. Best of luck sweetheart. (.

Those are turn offs for guys who only want sex. Guys who are looking for a serious relationship with be very happy you don't do any of that stuff.

The guys who are turned off by it aren't worth your time. When you find someone who's genuine, they'll like you for who you are.

Good. Stay that way. Don't want every dick up in you.

Nasty people in this world. Wait for the right guy he will come.

It's not! It's a wonderful thing that you don't drink smoke do drugs or have sex! Don't worry the right guy is around the corner.

Yea it is a turn off to the pricks but not the nice ones.

Get real. You think any guy wants a female that doesn't put out?

Trust me.. ugly guys think they are so hot they can get anyone.... tead''the rules.

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