Do you feel sex is better with someone you truly have feelings for or are feeling irrelevant?

Sex is very different with someone you care for... I think you would take more time and care to insure the other party's satisfaction.

Sex is always better with someone we truly have feelings for because love and sex are interrelated. If you love a girl and having sex with her, you both will feel immense pleasure and also respect each other but if you are engaging in sex with a stranger, you will not feel about her the same you will feel about a lover. Though it can happen that once you engage in sex with a stranger, you start loving him/her after that but that will be called love after engaging in sex.

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Maybe that depends on each individual, but for me, the feelings of love and intimacy make it so much better. When you're in love, you care how the other person feels. You take the time to get to know what appeals to them and what doesn't.

You are together multiple times which gives you ample opportunity to "perfect" your sex life and to grow comfortable enough to be fully naked, not just physically, but emotionally as well. You learn to move, to talk, to experiment in ways that strangers or those that have no feelings between them may not fully enjoy together.

I wrote a hub about this as when you have feelings for , love the one you are with it is lovemaking, far more meaninful than just sex . I know from experience the diference & I Love making love with the man I love.

Maybe the first couple times are great because its new and exciting, but as for females, our attachment hormones kick in , and we need to have that lovin' feeling... this has actually been researched and it is very much a fact, part of our human nature.

Sex is always better with commitment. If not physical, emotionally.

When you do it with someone you love, then your "making love" and you can feel the passion and all of that stuff. When you do it with a stranger then its just sex, because you cant intimate feelings for that person because you don't know them..

Sex is primarily a "head thing. " If you are a "normal" person, sex is better with someone you love. Normal meaning "average" or "typical."

However, there are people who seem to enjoy new sex with a new partner. Such people have emotional issues such as sex addiction or obsessive behavior. If you really get into sex with an emotional attachment, good for you.

If you need a new sexual "fix" on a regular basis, you may need to see a counselor. Humans are designed to attach ourselves to one partner. If you have great sex with a stranger or acquaintance, it will lead to problems and you'll never know how good it could have been.

You have to be romantically (emotionally) involved with the person you are having sex with. Otherwise it's no different than wacking off with another person.

As I can't speak for all men,when I was younger sex was sex but since I was around 30 (now 45) for me sex is always better with my true love as I express my self better with her because the love is so real and strong.

Sex with a person who is closed to your heart is like dream comes true. Feeling of sex with unknown or stranger is like fulfilling your lust only.

I've had experience with both! So... I would have to say, that sex is better when it's with someone you have feelings for. Most definitely!

Sex is so much better when you feel somthing for the person. At least to me it does. Well then again maybe im ther wrong person to answer this because I have only one person I slept with and im madly in love with him.

And even though most of the time I don't reach extacy it feels great to just have him apart of me. I remember I few times I just asked him to stay there to not get out :).

I have had both experiences, and for me the sex without feelings was always new and exciting. You are never afraid to try new things because there's never that "what if it scares him off" feeling. Where as if its with someone you deeply care about sometimes it does worry you about trying new things or expressing your deepest desires and fantasies.

But I realized in the end with the "unintimate" sex it just leaves you empty at the end of the day. Of course its exhilerating and an adrenaline rush but it doesn't last and you go to sleep alone. When you're with someone whom you love or deeply care about you know at the end of the "session" neither of you are going to get up and leave... you still have that person to kiss goodnight and you know that you're going to wake up to their face in the morning.

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I like it better when I got feelings for someone. Love is the best for me. Im into makeing love.

I believe sex with someone you don't have feelings for is like going to the gym simply to work out, a routine. When its all over you think of the next schedule. Sex with someone you have feelings for improves your blood circulatory system, you feel passion from head to toe.It leaves you with fond memories especially in those bad times when the relationship is not smooth.

Feelings enhances your mood for sex and if you don't have it you are just performing a duty. You might as well be sleeping with a log of wood, it doesn't make a difference!

Sex is much better with someone you have feelings for. Especially if the love is forbidden......... :).

Sex is always better with someone you truly have feelings for and have great passion with. Without it sex feels less intimate and without it a person doesn't really know how to "get inside you" if you know what I mean.

Sex is better with someone you have feelings for because you have lasting gratification. Gratification with sex sans feelings is fleeting.

Either one feels great! But sex with someone you truly have feelings for is totally different...but much much better.

That depends upon your philosophy regarding sexual intimacy. If you value yourself, you would valued others. If you are selfish and possess no positive regard for others, than your attitude is dismissive of others.

Intimacy is supposed to be a pleasurable expression and / or experience, what can be sexy about devaluing another.

Sex is for me something what you cant just do because you like someone. It has to be with truly feelings coz then when you do it..you feel not just temporary desire but also great moments what you spend with someone you love...

I think sex is not fully satisfying without some feelings! Even if its a one night stand, the least that can do is to like the other person which in any case is the first feeling! When you have feelings for someone, the mind and thoughts wait for the person penchantly the whole day untill you are together.

That in itself is so enchanting a feeling! Feelings makes the sex complete without anything missing! It is also likely to be wholesome and specific because when you have feelings you are likely to go that extra mile to please your partner and same would it be the other way round!

It depends on how much she will let you get away with.

That depends on what you want. If your end desire is just to have meaningless sex, then you got exactly what you wanted and should be satasified. You just need to be sure that you have nothing esle attached to those actions.

If you are looking for companionship, then it is defenally no. You'll end up feeling used and more of an object than a person. Life is short, know what you want and go for it because it's not going to be a simple journey.

Never put yourself in a position where you feel less than anythign or anyone.

Sex is more passionite with someone you have feelings.

I think the best sex is the sex you have with the person you are in love with are have feelings for.

I do think sex is way better with someone that you love and care for! You're more into satisfying them than you are if you're just having sex for the fun of it with someone you either don't know or someone who you're dating for a little while...

Better with someone you have feelings for definitely. Having it with someone you don't care much for ,trivialises its value and can make you resentful for giving yourself to someone who might be laughing behind your back about how you were such an easy lay. Someone who really loves you will never think like that.

They will value it just as much as you would.

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