I certainly feel for you. My little brother was killed by a drunk driver, I remember feeling anger and hatred for this young man who did not (at the time) have the common sense not to get behind the wheel of a car when drunk. Over the years the pain of the life he took eased but still hurt.
He had taken from me my brother and best friend, a father, a son, he was something to everyone in my family and a friend to many people as shown when over 500 people attended his funeral. The loss was complete for me. However after becoming a Pastor and seeing many situations, I have learned that young people are irresponsible when you allow alcohol and people lose their inhibitions when they drink, they do stupid things.
I am not saying you should forget what this person has done or the life you have lost but one day you will be able to forgive (hopefully). May God look out for this young woman's children and the family she left behind. God Bless!
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.