Housemates partner practically lives with us but won't pull his weight?

You are a obviously a deeply caring and loving person, but having read everything you wrote I would have to advise you to break it off. This passage alone says it all I no longer feel like his girlfriend, I feel like his mother. I hate it!

He's lied to me, manipulated me, cheated on me, stole from me. He's broken my trust over and over and I can't even trust him to help me around the house, no trust with anything! I have never advised anyone to break up with someone before (I like to think people who love each other can work it out) but really this guy doesn't seem to have much invested in the relationship.

If you break up with him then perhaps he might get some perspective, and he may learn to stand on his own two feet. It may be that you two can have a happy ending, but it requires a change in him. One that he may well be unwilling to make.

If you love him then this is probably going to hurt no matter what you do. Best of luck.

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