How can I cope with my girlfriend dressing in only underwear better?

Your reactions are completely normal and healthy. I would agree that your girlfriend probably isn't intentionally being inconsiderate of your feelings by her actions, but under the circumstances of her own making, the behaviour is still inconsiderate at best. Something about your situation, piqued my curiousity though.

You didn't mention whether your girlfriend is a virgin or not, which certainly might shed some light on her wishes. Your question also creates a picture that leads the reader to believe the two of you may live together, is that the case? I think after a year and a half of serious commitment, it's fair to expect more discussion of the subject, and a deeper understanding of why your girlfriend is not ready to be sexually intimate with you.

All relationships are an ongoing venture of building mutual trust and respect, and communication is key. I admire your loyalty and dedication, and suggest that you discuss the subject with your girlfriend more. Being inquisitive about her feelings, and the reasons behind her continued stance on sex, does not make you a pushy boyfriend.

It shows that you have a healthy interest in her, as well as yourself. Instead of looking for a way you can compromise, without her having to make any effort... explain to her how the behaviour effects you, and perhaps use the opportunity to revisit the subject of sex between the two of you. She may have had a change of heart, and is simply too shy or inexperienced to initiate intimacy with you.

Best wishes Tori.

It sounds like she has no problem being honest with you, and praise be given to whatever entity deserves it, because open communication is the one thing a relationship (in my opinion) cannot prosper without. In light of this revelation, however, I think you should realize that she'll be equally accepting of your own feelings and discussing any problems you're having with her. You respect her wishes not to become physical or sexual, and she should therefore acknowledge your respect for her, and return the favor by covering herself more if it makes you uncomfortable.

If it seems unbearable to simply ask her, or you don't want her to know (which I'm assuming is why you asked here first), then try buying her some special pajamas. Silky smooth ones, extra comfortable, and make it a special thing. Call them her lazy clothes, lounge jammies, and compliment her when she wears them.

Maybe she'll pick up the hint and start sporting them around the house instead of stripping down.

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