He is an 11 week old puppy and you are using the crate as punishment. He does not have any idea what you are doing. All he knows is he is put in his crate more than he is out.
He is not going to be quiet in his crate because he needs playtime and time to socialize with the family. Yes, he is going to have accidents in the house. He is biting and chewing because he is a PUPPY.
That is what they do! None of this is the puppy's fault. If you continue to lock him up in his crate because he has 'not done his business outside' you are making a big mistake.
From what you are saying you have enough stress and should have never gotten a puppy. I suggest re-homing him. More.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.