How do you react to others who aren't grieving like you're grieving?

My condolences to your family, quesera. Some people just don't feel comfortable expressing deep emotions. It sounds like there was a strained relationship.

Maybe they hurt more than you think and their uncaring attitude is a cover-up. We really can't know everything that goes on in someone's head. I know you don't want to stir up more trouble during this difficult time by being snappish toward them.

Show them how mature you can be, and put them to shame. Don't react to their uncaring attitude or thoughtless remark at all; quietly leave the room if you have to and they'll get the message. Work on your own grief and leave them to deal with their own mental health.

Now, if you care to know, I'll tell you what I would do if this were my problem: I find the best way to get revenge is to treat the people who annoy me with kindness. I'd walk up to each of them and give them my own expressions of sympathy for their loss, and I wouldn't even be sarcastic about it. Makes people like that wonder what you're up to...and it drives them nuts.

You are right that everyone should feel the way they want. When it comes to a death, everyone grieves in their own way. It is acceptable for someone to grieve differently than you, especially when they had a different perspective on the deceased and their life.

When my mom passed away, one of her friends came over the day she died and started cracking jokes about my mom's death and sorta made it seem like no big deal. That was their way of handling it. As much as I wanted to yell at them for being seemingly insensitive, I just walked away.

 When you come across the family members who seem less than caring about the death, I would either not say anything at all or emphasize the positives of the deceased person when they were alive and leave it at that. Don't confront anyone and do not let your anger or frustrations with someone else's grief hinder your grieving process.   Â.

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