I am a happily married woman, but I recently went on vacation (without my husband) and met a woman.?

AH Ha! Here is why, read this article about female sex tourists going to those islands including Barbados. My guess is that he read something similar so he thinks you 4 women want to go alone to get some black bone.

http://www.escapeartist.com/Travel_Mag/I...

I would go. That said, I once talked to my husband about a trip away with a married friend who was completely stressed. I thought she could benefit from the time away.

He was fine with it, but pointed out that this particular friend took up with married men when she was single. He said, "How would you feel if she abandoned you and took up with another man while you were on the cruise?" He was right - and I dropped the idea because I truly didn't trust that this couldn't happen.

With 3 women however, this is not going to happen - I would go. Tell him that you will be flattered if men hit on you, and that just because you are flattered does not mean that anything would happen. You could be hit on at the PTA meeting - why would he think that would mean you would cheat.

I would be highly insulted by the implication. Attractive men are everywhere - marriage means that they are simply off limits, not that you are dead inside or to be invisible from now on. He should have more faith in you, and I would not broadcast his distrust by telling the other women that you cannot go.

If you do not go, your marriage will be more damaged than if you go. He needs to do some growing up, and this is an opportunity to help that along.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.